Thoughts on Turning Sixty
I
begin
with
a
tale:
In
1989,
I
was
working
the
late
shift
at
Havens
Steel,
in
Ottawa,
Kansas.
That
summer,
we
prefabricated
the
Minnesota
Timberwolves
basketball
arena
and the Memphis Pyramid, among other things.
My
shift
supervisor
came
up
to
me
ashen-faced.
“There’s
a
call
for
you
in
the
office,”
he
said.
I
went
into
the
office
and
picked
up
the
phone.
It
was
my
editor
at
the
Kansas
City Star
: “You work at a steel mill?” he gasped.
I
allowed
as
how
I
did.
“I
can’t
keep
body
and
soul
together
on
what
you
pay
for
reviews,”
I
noted.
He
laughed.
But the incredulity was still there.
He
asked
me
a
question
about
my
upcoming
review,
and
I
answered it. He hung up.
My
shift
supervisor
confronted
me
at
the
door,
where
he’d
been
hovering,
hoping
to
pick
up
something
above
the
airport landing strip din of the mill.
“You WRITE for the Kansas City Star?” he asked.
“Yes.”
I
said,
and
there
wasn’t
anything
to
add.
It
was
clearly
time
to
leave
Kansas
and
I
was
in
Santa
Fe,
New
Mexico within two weeks.
But
the
point
is
made:
I
have
lived
in
several
worlds
simultaneously,
and
when
denizens
of
those
worlds
inadvertently meet, they are surprised.
I guess I just can’t be one-dimensional. Mea culpa.
I
keep
getting
Twitter
spam,
telling
me
what's
hot
in
my
network.
And
I
remember
that
I
veered
from
that
world
during
my
first
Saturn
return,
when
I
turned
thirty.
I
said
it
then,
and
I
believe
it
to
be
true
now:
you'll
never
be
older
than
you
are
when
you
turn
thirty.
And
you'll
never
be
more
tweaked than you were at sixteen.
Yes. I started out writing on a typewriter.
My first novel, now ashes. But don’t
cry for me, Argentina. It deserved it.
I
weaned
myself
off
the
phone
in
1984,
mostly
because
if
I
need
a
phone
I
can
find
a
phone
and
I
rarely
need
a
phone.
So,
when
cell
phones
first
came
out,
the
only
people
I
saw
lugging
them
were
Hollywood
pimps
and
street
dealers.
A
decade
later,
I
noticed
the
smaller
phones,
as
people
started
walking
around
in
public
talking
to,
seemingly,
no
one.
I
once
shut
down
a
particularly
obnoxious
cell
phone
histrionicizer
in
a
bank
by
stage
whispering
to
the
woman
behind
me,
“Wouldn't
it
be
funny
if
the
battery
was
actually
dead right now?”
She laughed. He took it down to a mumble.
Then
people
started
pretending
they
were
from
Star
Trek,
the
Original
Series,
and
people,
particularly
real
estate
people,
started
wearing
what
looked
like
high
tech,
blue
cockroaches
on
their
ears.
Turned
out
to
be
phones.
Still
looked like blue cockroaches.
And I went away yet again.
Thence,
in
airport
after
several
years
away,
suddenly
everyone
had
a
miniature
TV
screen
that
they
played
with,
listened
to,
fiddled
with,
fidgeted
with
and
utterly
engrossed
them while they waited for their planes.
I
finally
accepted
a
“Gusto”
flip
phone
that
doesn't
work
like
those
on
Star
Trek,
but
which
requires
me
to
lever
it
open
with
a
thumbnail,
which
I
rarely
do,
since
no
one
ever
calls me on it, since no one has the number.
I
have
talked
plenty
on
phones
over
the
years.
I
am
happy
to NOT talk on the
m, when I can help it.
Ironically,
I
covered
the
death
of
the
Rocky
Mountain
News
as
employees
learning
about
the
closure
tweeted
from
the newsroom. Before Twitter really caught on.
And
I
am
reminded
that
I
don't
always
get
it
right.
Ofttimes
I
miss
major
social
changes,
and
Twitter
was
one.
I
thought it would be a short lived fad. It doesn't seem to be.
The
Twittersphere
of
short
meme-based
communications
seems
well-adapted
to
an
ADD
world.
But
I
haven't
lived
there
for
a
long
long
time,
so
I
never
read
what's
“hot”
in
my
network.
I
look
to
more
substantive
sources
for
my
news.
But
that
is
not
because
of
my
age.
It
is
because
of
my
priorities.
As
I
move
from
middle
age
to
well-earned
geezerhood,
I
am
happy
that
I
made
several
choices
in
my
life,
and
I
am
happy with my life. That's the short version.
And so I am born ...
Here's a longer version.
When
I
quit
doing
“formal”
music,
having
taken
Music
Theory
101
in
college
and
a
semester's
worth
of
piano
lessons,
learning
to
play
selections
from
Bela
Bartok's
Mikrokosmos,
I
made
the
conscious
decision
to
NOT
learn
from
others'
licks,
but
to
start
from
there
and
construct
my
own stuff.
As
I
had
made
the
conscious
decision
to
NOT
learn
songs
on
the
guitar,
but
to
learn
the
chords
and
write
my
own
songs,
so
that
I
wouldn't
be
haunted
by
“oh,
that's
such
and
such”
or
“that's
so-and-so”
and
in
retrospect
those
turned
out to be very good choices.
When
I
was
a
kid,
reading
voraciously
out
of
the
Carnegie
Public
Library,
I
adopted
a
“superstition”
-
as
US
Grant
called
it
-
that
I
would
not
glide
over
words
I
didn't
know, but would STOP and go look it up in the dictionary.
I was an early adopter of the Internet
For
my
ultimate
profession
and
my
life
in
general,
this
proved
incredibly
valuable
and
was
the
beginning
of
a
life-
long
love
affair
with
this
English
language
that
I
so
oft
abuse. Alas.
And
I
am
happy
to
have
taken
the
same
approach
to
art,
having
taken
my
formal
training
at
Hollywood
High
School
Adult
Night
School,
Introduction
to
drawing
and
then
ignoring
all
other
influences.
Not
stopping
my
looking,
nor
my listening but not LEARNING how to do this or that.
And
at
sixty,
what
I
have
is
mine.
It
is
my
art,
my
music,
my
writing.
It
took
longer
this
way,
perhaps,
but
I
look
back
and
am
happy
that
I
learned
to
take
the
slow,
patient
path
for
my
rewards.
Those
things
built
over
a
long
time
generally
take
a
long
time
to
go
away,
where
those
things
built in a day or in a year vanish just as fast.
I
am
happy
to
have
learned
this
lesson.
I
am
not
at
all
happy
with
its
teachers,
but
that
is
a
topic
for
another
day,
perhaps.
When
I
chose
to
be
a
writer
-
or,
more
correctly,
it
chose
me,
that
call
of
“vocation”
that
would-be
priests
are
so
desirous
of
-
I
knew
that
I
was
in
it
for
the
long
haul.
I
hoped
for
overnight
success,
and
yes,
I
had
a
share.
But
I
also
knew
that
being
a
writer
at
twenty
was
still
going
to
be
being a writer at sixty.
I
wrote
a
blog
for
ten
years,
and
have
taken
a
year
off.
And
it
was
nice,
for
once,
to
NOT
write.
But
I
knew
as
I've
always
known
that
it
would
not
last.
I
write
and
have
written,
since
I
realized
that
I
was
a
writer,
as
I
breathe:
naturally and almost unconsciously.
I
have
worked
hard
with
music
and
with
art
to
do
the
same
thing.
They
are
my
pets,
my
unicorns:
I
was
always
willing
to
take
any
writing
work,
from
writing
brochures
for
cancer
clinics
to
writing
résumés
to
typesetting
Lee
Nails
boxes,
Spanish
supermarket
fliers
(“Uvas”
always
seemed
to
me
a
perfect
thing
for
a
crowd
to
chant)
and
part
of
the
proposal
for
the
Space
Station
that
Congress
originally
approved.
“Have
typewriter,
will
travel”
was
my
leitmotif,
and
I
never
was
unwilling
to
earn
my
living
with
it,
never
thought
that
working
as
a
Kelly
Girl
retyping
papers
or
other
things
that
no
one
in
the
office
wanted
to
type
was
“beneath
me.”
As
Sturgeon
told
me,
“If
you
can't
do
art,
do
craft.”
And
“Never
be
afraid
to
take
the
'humble'
jobs:
there's
always
a
gift.”
Theodore Sturgeon 1918-1985
I
listened
to
him,
and
he
was
right:
being
willing
to
write
the
photo
captions
and
the
“girl
copy”
and
the
little
house
introductions
to
special
sections
always
taught
me
something.
Ditto
typesetting
Spanish
supermarket
fliers.
There
is
always
some
little
thing
you
learn
that
you
could
learn no other way.
No:
I
always
have
been
willing
to
work
as
a
commercial
writer/typist.
Or,
as
I
perhaps
ought
to
put
out
a
slab:
“Scribe.”
I chose to never specialize and that was a good choice.
I
decided
to
figure
out
where
you
go
when
you
die,
and
I
looked
around
until
I
found
a
practical
school
and
a
practical
teacher,
and
I
found
my
answers
then
and
am
not
in a state of existential crisis today.
I
guess
you
should
have
more
explanation
but
I
can't
give
you
answers.
You
have
to
get
your
own
answers.
I
answered
the
great
existential
question
which
gave
me
prime
directive
from which to construct my values, and my world.
An
inner
moral
“compass”
you
might
say.
And
now,
as
my
body
panics
as
little
debilities
appear,
I
understand
how
much
more
terrifying
it
would
be
did
I
not
understand
the
process
I
am
now
in
the
final
stage
of.
Seems
like
I
was
just
about to turn 30 and now I'm turning 60.
I
want
to
live
to
one
hundred,
but
if
I
die
tomorrow,
I
have no regrets.
The
most
difficult
lesson
to
learn
was
learned
at
the
end:
If
your
vision
is
clear,
then
write
it,
draw
it,
compose
it,
and
move
on
to
the
next
creation.
Eventually
the
world
will
catch
up,
but
I
don't
depend
on
the
compliments
and
adulation of the world for my impetus to create.
I
wanted
to
be
the
person
that
I
am
at
twenty
and
I
find
that
when
I
stand
there
and
look
here,
he
is
not
only
happy,
but
astonished
at
all
the
amazing
stuff
that
has
happened
along the way.
I
am
not
without
my
faults,
but
I
am
comfortable
in
my
own
skin
and
on
my
planet.
And
my
“vices”
are
not
very
impressive.
With
patience,
they
can
be
weeded
from
my
garden.
I
can
“do”
the
telephone/smart
phone
thing.
I
can
tweet.
I
can titter. But, I don't generally twitter.
Then
again,
I'm
a
geezer
and
am
not
expected
to
be
computer
literate.
As
most
of
my
generation
is
not
computer
literate.
Another
choice
I
made
that
I'm
happy
with.
I
used
to
play
the
same
BASIC
games
in
the
basement
of
the
Math
building
using
boxes
of
sprocket-feed
computer
paper
to
land lunar modules and shoot space invaders.
And
I
got
into
computer
typesetting
in
1977
and
followed
the
diverging
models
and
evolution
of
Compugraphic
and
VariType
typesetting
machines
from
the
beginning
through
the
extinction,
seemingly,
of
the
very
profession.
I
followed
the keyboard from typewriter to computer keyboard.
And
I
got
to
watch
the
greatest
revolution
in
mass
communications
since
Gutenberg
and
within
the
realm
of
Print since Gutenberg.
Which
was
when
I
realized
that
if
I
had
to
wait
for
someone
to
approve
my
projects
I'd
be
waiting
until
hell
froze over and would produce nothing in the meantime.
Cutting up their rejection letter and returning
it to them got me a humor column at New West
And,
as
I
look
back,
almost
everything
I
ever
wrote,
drew,
painted
and
composed
is
MY
copyright,
and
my
intellectual
property.
So,
I
have
something
to
show
for
my
passage
through
this
life.
There
are
many
who
can't
say
that,
and that alone is SOMEthing.
Anyway
it’s
been
a
long,
strange
trip.
Here’s
an
example
of
something
you
probably
know
nothing
about:
I
have
been
in
films—as
a
filmable
prop—with
Sylvester
Stallone,
Adam
West,
Phil
Silvers,
David
Carradine,
Willem
Dafoe,
Mickey
O'Rourke,
Ron
Jeremy,
Jerry
Butler
and
John
Holmes, among others.
And that’s just one little bit of it….
Courage.
Eugene, Oregon
December 11, 2015
Listen to this
short but amazing
recording from
December 11, 1941.
Frank Kelly Freas drew me
in 1976
Bill Rotsler did, too, but presciently
predicted this birthday…
Take a look at the next page …
1972 - The last Moon landing, Apollo 17
1941 - The last American declarattion of war, as Germany
and Italy declared war on the USA and we then declared
war on them. Thought at the time to be momentous, as
Adams thought July 2 would be momentous.
1282 - Llywelyn ab Gruffydd/Llywelyn the Last (b. c.1228),
the last native Prince of Wales, is killed at Cilmeri, near
Builth Wells, south Wales.
1688 - King James II captured in Kent.
1909 - Colored moving pictures demonstrated at Madison
Square Garden, NYC
1954 - USS Forrestal christened in Newport News, Va
1980 - "Magnum P.I." starring Tom Selleck premieres on
CBS
1816 - Indiana becomes 19th state of the Union
2000 - the last day before a US Supreme Court, in a
remarkable decision, awarded an American presidential
election to their ideological pick in Bush v. Gore. Last day
of the republic.
1928 - NL Pres John Heydler proposes designated hitter for pitchers
1931 - Japan leaves the Gold Standard
1951 - Joe DiMaggio announces his retirement from baseball
2014 - World's 1st penis transplant procedure by a team from Stellenbosch
University and Tygerberg Hospital in Cape Town, South Africa
2012 - British physicist, Stephen Hawking, wins the $3 million Fundamental
Physics Prize, the most lucrative academic prize in the world
359 - Honoratus, first known Prefect of the City of Constantinople, takes office.
1719 - 1st recorded display of Aurora Borealis in north American colonies (New
England)
1620 - 103 Mayflower pilgrims land at Plymouth Rock (12/21 NS)
and, perhaps with great cosmic justice:
1919 - Boll weevil monument dedicated in Enterprise, Alabama
•
1981
Muhammad Ali's 61st and last
fight, losing to Trevor Berbick
•
1978
6 masked men bound 10
employees at Lufthansa cargo area at
New York Kennedy Airport and made
off with $5.8 M in cash and jewelry